4 Important Things To Consider Before Saying ‘I do’!

Marriages are made in heaven, they say, but they’re also the biggest commitment and one of the most important decisions you ever make.

Marriage ushers one into a different level of life and it’s very important to make it a wise decision.

As desirable and exciting as it might be for you and your partner, there are important things to consider that will ensure your happily ever after!

Generally, regardless of how blissful the relationship feels, no one should feel overly-excited or unduly pressured into making or accepting a marriage proposal until the following four issues are discussed:

Compatibility

First and foremost, how compatible are you and your partner? Do you like spending time together, or does time seem to crawl by?

How outgoing are you? How about him? Does your idea of fun align? Would one be willing to bend or shift to accommodate the other?

As one grows older, passion and looks fades but can you imagine sitting together on a porch in your old age and having a conversation? If so, you’ve found your match.

Finances

Love can’t thrive on fresh air alone. It is important for both partners to be transparent about their financial situations.

One must know how much the partner earns and whether it is enough to sustain a family, if there is any large loan outstanding.

This may seem a bit harsh, but at the end of the day if this is not sorted out, it can be the biggest cause of friction.

Discuss money and settle issues surrounding this, so it doesn’t disturb your relationship.

Respect

Respect is a key factor in every relationship. Does your partner respect you, your wishes and your decisions?

Sometimes you make relationship decisions based on love and allow the other person to disrespect and take you for granted, in the hope that your sacrifice will be compensated with love.

Stereotypes Of Both A Husband’s And Wife’s Role In The Marriage

In today’s day and age, it is important to understand how both partners feel about each other’s role in the household.

Find out if it will be frowned upon if the wife pursues her career? Or is she expected to work and will it be held against her if she directs her energies towards raising a family? Is the husband expected to help out with the household chores?

Have these talks. Find a common ground. Don’t leave things to chances, it can break up your home.