‘I’m An Extreme Lover’ – Funke Akindele Opens Up On Relationships

Award-winning actress and filmmaker, Funke Akindele, has described herself as an “extremist” in relationships, admitting that she loves deeply but can also cut people off completely.

The actress made the revelation on The Morayo Show, hosted by veteran broadcaster Morayo Afolabi-Brown, where she reflected on her personality and how she manages friendships.

“I’m an extremist. I love so hard. I’m real. I’m like this. I’m not perfect. I can be troublesome. Yes, I can be. I’m tough,” she said.

Responding to the host’s observation that she tends to operate at two extremes—either loving deeply or cutting ties—Akindele acknowledged the trait but noted that she is actively working towards achieving balance.

“I’m not proud of that and I’m proud of it. There must be a balance,” she added.

The actress credited filmmaker and friend, Uzee Usman, for helping her recognise certain blind spots in her behaviour. She recalled how he once advised her, as a leader, to accept people for who they are rather than expecting everyone to act the same way she does.

According to Akindele, the advice prompted a moment of reflection, leading her to reconsider her approach to relationships and leadership.

She also spoke about lessons from her late mother, who often reminded her that people operate at different speeds and capacities.

“Everybody’s not as smart as you, as fast as you. Calm down. It is good, but calm down,” she recounted.

Despite her intense approach to relationships, Akindele emphasised that she continues to learn and prioritise her well-being.

“Human relationships for me are very important and I’m learning every day. But no matter what happens, my mental health is very important,” she said.